The Kids are Alright, and Here's Why
12/2/2019 3:56:43 PMI will take a moment here to acknowledge Crystal Jonkman, to whom I am married, quite elatedly, and who continues to constantly astound me with her incredible artistic strength and passion. Her field of art is music, something which consumes her every single day and many nights. Classically trained, she plays the pipe organ and piano. Not just dabbling in it the way I do in my painting. No, she has competed nationally and internationally to considerable acclaim. She is a wonderful choral conductor whose joy in vocal harmony encourages others to achieve their own very best. Of late, she divides professional time between Richmond's St. Michael's Episcopal Church and the Greater Richmond Children's Choir, a fine organization indeed.
On the Saturday morning after Thanksgiving, I joined Crystal (as I've done for several years now) at a Richmond Symphony "Lollipops" Concert. Why? Because for many years running at this annual holiday concert for children, a chorister from the GRCC has sung solo as the symphony accompanies the holiday film "The Snowman." This isn't Crystal's gig, it's all Richmond Symphony. But Crystal supports her kids. And their parents. And music. It's what you do when you want the best for those you mentor.
Imagine you are 12 years old, sitting on the stage with dozens of professional adult musicians facing some 1,500 or more audience members, knowing you will be the only one singing when the big moment arrives. I can't. I cannot see my once twelve year old self being able to do anything even remotely as public and focused and possible to screw up. I would have been an oxymoron: petrified jello. Yet every year, a 12 year or so old kid steps up and sings and just blows the auditorium away. In clear, crafted tones and with firm commitment to honor the composer's vision over the performer's ego. A professional just as Crystal has instructed. These kids are fantastic.
In my younger days courting tinnitus listening to extremely loud rock music I would never have been able to predict that one of my annual highlights would be to sit happily with hundreds of fidgety tykes during a holiday concert waiting for the Snowman's magic to happen yet again. But it is, it is. Earlier this year, GRCC singers participated in a presentation of Carmen along with the symphony, members of the Virginia Opera, and guest mezzo-soprano Denyce Graves. Crystal was backstage and tells me that Ms. Graves was all over the young singers as they came off stage, handing out high fives and enthusiastically telling them"you killed it! You totally killed it" Crystal's been in the biz long enough to distinguish polite praise from the real deal. This was the real deal. I write this because I believe that all of these young choristers kill it when they get the chance due at least in part to Crystal's instilling so much love of singing and the art of being professional. They reach high and they make it. And I'm proud of them. And of her.
But you don't have to take my word for it. Listen to the words of an 11 year old choir member: "I never knew the Greater Richmond Children’s Choir would be so much fun! First we got to sing with the world famous opera star Denyce Graves! Now we get to sing with a famous choir made up of singers from all over the country!"
Or learn of the even younger singer who demanded a password from everyone entering the rehearsal space, including Crystal and her assistants. Her required password?
"I Love to Sing."



